UBill de Blasio kunye noChirlane McCray. (Ifoto: Getty) Igqwetha likaRhulumente u-Bill de Blasio, othembise ukuba ngusodolophu onethemba, uye wabonisa inkosikazi yakhe u-Chirlane McCray kuhambo lwakhe loncwadi nakwiwebhusayithi yakhe. Ngaphandle kwendima ephambili kaNks.McCray kwiphulo lakhe, nalapho asebenza njengomcebisi ongahlawulelwanga, inye yobomi bakhe ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ayikabikho kuluntu.
Phambi kokudibana noMnumzana de Blasio, UNks McCray uchongwe njengowathandana nabanye abantu kwaye waba nobudlelwane obude kunye nabanye abantu basetyhini. Kwisincoko esinamaphepha asixhenxe asibhalileyo ngoSeptemba 1979 Ubungakanani Iphephancwadi elinesihloko esithi ndingumLesbian ngokungathandabuzekiyo waxoxa ngesini sakhe kwaye wavakalisa umbulelo ngokuba evumelana nokukhetha kwakhe abantu ababhinqileyo ngaphambi kokutshata nendoda.
Ndisinde kwiinyembezi, ukubekwa ndedwa kunye nemvakalelo yokuba kukho into engalunganga kum ngokuthanda elinye ibhinqa u-Ms McCray wabhala. Ukuza ebomini bam njengobungqingili kuye kwaba lula kum kunokuba kuninzi. Kuba andijongi okanye ndinxibe njengesiqhelo ugandaganda, ndinokhetho lokuba ingaba ukuthanda kwam isondo kuyaziwa na.
Wongeze ngelithi, ndibenethamsanqa kuba ndiye ndafumanisa ukuthanda kwam abasetyhini kwangaphambi kwexesha, ngaphambi kokuba nditshixelwe kumtshato wesintu nokuba nabantwana.
Namhlanje, UNks McCray ungaphakathi kakhulu kumtshato wesintu nabantwana. Yena nomyeni wakhe badibana kwiHolo yeSixeko ngo-1991 Ngelixa wayesebenza njengombhali wentetho kulowo wayesakuba nguSodolophu uDavid Dinkins noMnumzana de Blasio wayengumncedisi kasodolophu kwimicimbi yoluntu. Esi sibini satshata ngo-1994 kumsitho owawuseProspect Park owawubandakanya abaphathiswa besini esinye, abezinye iintlanga, iqela labaphathiswa abahlukeneyo, iqela lase-Italiya kunye nababethi bamagqirha baseAfrika. Ukusukela ngoko, uNks.McCray unabantwana ababini noMnu de Blasio kwaye, ngamazwi akhe , ndichithe phantse iminyaka engama-20 ndihlala nephulo endlwini yam. 
Chirlane McCray (Ifoto: Twitter)
Phambi kokungena kummandla wezopolitiko, uNkosk. McCray wachitha ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka esebenza njengomhleli, umbhali wemagazini kunye nembongi. Kwisincoko sakhe Ubungakanani , wachongwa njengombhali wenkululeko kunye nomncedisi wangaphambili wokuhlela Incwadi ebomvu . Ngeli xesha wayemshicilela ndilinqaku leLesbian, elalibhalwe kwiphepha elingaphandle lephephancwadi elinomxholo othi BEYOND FEAR -Lesbian Speaks! UNks. abamnyama, abathandana besini ababhinqileyo eyayisebenza ukusukela ngo-1974 ukuya ngo-1980. Omnye wakhe eyona mibongo idumileyo yenziwe ngelixa wayeyinxalenye yeereferensi zeqela ezinesithandwa sabasetyhini.
I-biografi kaNks. McCray kwiwebhusayithi yomkhankaso womyeni wakhe uphawula ubudlelwane bakhe neCombahee River Collective, nangona kunjalo ishiya nayiphi na into ekhankanyiweyo yeengcambu zesini lesini kwaye ngokulula ibhekisa kuyo njengombutho wabasetyhini abantsundu oovulandlela.
Nangona uMnu de Blasio kunye noNks. McCray bengabaxhasi bamalungelo abantu abathandana besisini esinye, esi sibini asixelelanga esidlangalaleni. NgoJuni ophelileyo, emva kokuba iNew York isemthethweni ngokutshata kwabantu besini esinye, uMnu de Blasio kunye noNks McCray wabhala isiqwenga ye HAMBA! lincoma ukulingana emtshatweni kwaye babonakalise ukuma kwabo njengesibini esitshatileyo. Kwinqaku, baxoxa ngomtshato wabo kwaye bachaza ukuba nabahlobo abathandanayo nabasetyhini kunye namalungu osapho, kodwa bangathethi ngokuchongwa kwangaphambili kukaNks. McCray njengongowesini.
Sobabini sikholelwa ngokuzimisela kumalungelo amaqabane ethu athandana namanye kunye namalungu osapho, babhala. Kodwa kwinqanaba lomntu, sinolwazi olunzulu lokuba bekukho ixesha kungekudala apho umtshato wethu wawungenakwenzeka kwilizwe elininzi.
Nksk McCray Ubungakanani Isincoko sichaza uninzi lwabasetyhini awadibana nabo kwiminyaka yakhe yasekholejini eWellesley kunye neKhosi yaseRadcliffe yoPapasho ababengathandi ukuvulelwa malunga nokuziphatha kwabo kubandakanya umntu othintela ubudlelwane nabasetyhini kuba wayefuna ukuba nomsebenzi wezopolitiko.
Ndabona ukuba kuthatha isibindi kunye namandla ukuze ubonakale, U-Nksk McCray wabhala.
Ngalo mbhalo. Nksk.McCray okanye iphulo likaMnu de Blasio aliphendulanga kwizicelo ezininzi zokubeka izimvo ngeli bali.
Hlaziya (4: 32 pm): Ngesithethi sephulo uNks. McCray uxelele u-Azi Paybarah waseNew York : Ngoo-1970, ndazichonga njengobungqingili besithandana kwaye ndabhala ngako. Ngo-1991, ndadibana nothando lobomi bam, ndatshata naye.
Akucaci ukuba utshintshe njani ukusuka kwisini esichazayo esasizithemba ukuba wayehlala etsala abantu basetyhini, ngokwasemoyeni nangokwasemzimbeni, kunamadoda aye kumfazi wezopolitiko kumtshato wesini esahlukileyo.
Kwi Umthombo, UNks. McCray ubhale malunga nendlela awadibana ngayo nesithandwa sakhe sokuqala sabasetyhini, esamchonga kuphela njengoSharon, kwindawo entsha e-Wellesley.
Undenze ndagcuma xa ngesiquphe, ngokungalindelekanga, woyame wahleba. ‘Awunqweneli ukuba sidibane? ' UNks McCray wabhala.
Kwiinyanga ezine emva kokudibana kwindawo yokuqhelanisa, uSharon kunye noNks. McCray bazifumanisa omnye komnye, bevuma okokuqala uthando lwethu omnye komnye.
Ndonwabile. Kwakukho uvuyo lokuvuka ngokusebeza kwakhe kunye nokufudumala okuthambileyo kwebhinqa lakhe, wabhala uNksk. McCray. Ngaphaya koko yayilulo uvuyo lokufumanisa, lokubukela indawo yam entsha isenzeka. Kwakufana nokuzalwa okwesibini.
USharon kunye noNks. McCray bakhawuleza bahlala kunye kwiindawo zokulala.
Sasiqinisekile ukuba siyabathanda abafazi kwaye sibakhetha njengabathandi, wabhala.
UNks McCray ekugqibeleni wahlukana noSharon. Ibali lakhe lichaza olunye ubudlelwane bexesha elide awayenalo nelinye ibhinqa. Ukuqukumbela, wabhala ukuba wayethandana nomntu ogama linguCandice awayehlala naye iminyaka emibini enesiqingatha kwaye wachaza njengowasetyhini endihlala naye kwaye endinethemba lokuchitha ubomi bam naye.
Ngokucacileyo, ebomini, njengakwipolitiki, nezona zicwangciso zibekwe kakuhle zinokutshintsha.
Jonga ikopi eskeniweyo yenqaku likaNks. McCray elingezantsi:
'NdinguLesbian' ngu, Chirlane McCray -I-Essence Magazine (ngoSeptemba 1979) [i-id-iframe id = c1fa607f2166a77ede98a9947900a821-35584880-169951245 ″ info = http: //www.scribd.com/embeds/115665122/content? Iklasi = iklip_iframe_embed scrolling = no]
(Ukuhlaziywa kwe-4: 10 emva kwemini ngekopi yenqaku likaNks. McCray.)
