Ukuzisebenzela ngokwakho, kunokuba lilolo kakhulu.(Ifoto: Spencer Platt / Getty Izithombe) Ukuba uhlala kwizithuba ezifanelekileyo kwi-intanethi, ubona rhoqo, ndiyeke umsebenzi wam wokuzibandakanya ekugqibeleni ndilandele uthando lwam.
Imifanekiso yeelaptops kwiitafile ezikwivenkile zekofu ijonge elwandle. Umntu unokuxolelwa ngokucinga ukuba ilizwe liphela lifuna ukuyeka ukusebenza iiyure eziqhelekileyo, ukulahla umphathi wabo, balahle iimpahla ezingonwabisiyo kwaye baphile ubomi apho belawula ngokupheleleyo. Ukutsala, akunjalo? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba wena bekulungile, uya kuba nakho ukwenza njalo… akunjalo?
Ndiya kuba ngowokuqala ukuphakamisa isandla sam ukuba andinakucinga ngento embi kunokuqhuba ishishini lam, kwaye andinawo umnqweno wokushiya umsebenzi wam. Ndiyakuthanda ukusebenza eofisini, ndiyabathanda abantu endisebenza nabo, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ndiyawuthanda umsebenzi wam kunye nomsebenzi endiwenzayo.
Ndiyayithanda inyani yokuba ndithethathethane ngomvuzo wam, ukuba zonke i-minutia zerhafu ziyakhathalelwa kwaye ndingagxila kwinto endenza ngcono. Ndiyazi kakuhle ukuba ndinethamsanqa kunabaninzi kuba ndisebenze indlela yam ndaya kwenye yezona nkampani zibalaseleyo emhlabeni-eyona ikhetha kakhulu malunga nokulunga. Ndiyazi ukuba uninzi lweenkampani ziwela kancinci-okanye okuninzi-kufutshane kolo phawu.
Ukufuna ukuyeka ukwenza into yakho yenye yeemeko ezibi kakhulu zengca iluhlaza kwelinye icala kuba uninzi lwabantu lubonakala ngayo yonke into elungileyo yokuba ngumphathi wabo ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo naziphi na izinto ezimbi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unolawulo ngexesha lakho, indlela onxiba ngayo nento oyenzayo, kodwa kufuneka wenze wonke umsebenzi wakho wolawulo-irhafu, ukugcinwa kweencwadi njalo njalo. Hayi enkosi. Kuya kufuneka ukhathazeke ngomgca wakho osezantsi lonke ixesha, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kuya kufuneka uphume uye kufumana bonke abathengi bakho. Ngaphandle kokuba unemveliso okanye inkonzo emangalisa kakhulu, eyahlukileyo kangangokuba iyazithengisa, nguwe uya kuphuma uyokuthengisa.
Masithi uyakuthanda ukufota. Ugqiba kwelokuba uvule elakho ishishini lokufota. Thatha ingqalelo kubunyani: Uza kuchitha ixesha elininzi okanye nangaphezulu ube ngumgcini zincwadi, umthengisi kunye nomphathi kunokuba umfoti. Uza kudityaniswa neninzi yeminutia eza kuthatha ixesha lakho usenza into othanda ukuyenza.
Ngaba unobuntu okanye amandla okufikelela phambi kwabantu kwaye uthengise imveliso yakho? Ngaba uqeqeshwe ngokwaneleyo ukuba ulisebenzise kakuhle ixesha lakho, kunokuba ujikeleze kwimithombo yeendaba? Ngaba uzilungiselele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ucwangcise iinyanga ezizayo-ke amatyala, iirhafu nokunye akunakukungena? Ngaba unamava ngokwaneleyo okuqikelela umvuzo wexesha elizayo kunye nokuhlalutya imeko yangoku yeemarike? Ngaba ukwenzile nayiphi na Uphando lweemarike ukumisela ukuba unayo imodeli yoshishino eyiyo?
Ezi zizinto ezimbalwa kakhulu abantu abazicingayo xa becinga ukuba bafuna ukuzisebenzela.
Siva rhoqo ukuba inani elikhulu lamashishini amancinci asilele kunyaka wabo wokuqala. Siyifakela inyani kwinto yokuba kunzima nje ukuqhuba ishishini elincinci, ukuba mhlawumbi ibingumbono ombi-ukuba thina yenzile, Ewe siza kuphumelela . Sithatha yonke into ngokulula kakhulu, sicinga ukuba imveliso enkulu-nokuba yeyokwenyama njengokutya, okanye enye into ebhaliweyo yokubhala-iya kuzikhathalela.
Ewe, ngekhe. Ngaba ubucinga ukuba uza kuyeka nje umsebenzi wakho weqonga kuba ukufota okwenzayo ngexesha lakho lokuzonwabisa lilungile, kwaye oko kukodwa kuya kugcina ishishini lakho? Ndiyakucaphukela ukuyaphula kuwe, kodwa into oyifunayo ayisiyiyo eyakho ishishini. Ufuna ukuphumelela iLotto ukuze ukwazi ukugxila kwinto oyithandayo.
Kukho iivenkile ezinje kuzo zonke izixeko-uyazi, ezo ungakhe ubabone abantu kuzo, apho uzibuze ukuba ingaba umniniyo uziphilisa njani? Bona sukuyenza . Baxhaswa liqabane elisityebi, kwaye bavule oko kubizwa ngokuba yindawo yokugcina izinto ezingento. Ukuba ufuna ukugxila ekwenzeni nje ukufota okuhle, emva koko awufuni shishini lokwenyani-ufuna ishishini elingenamsebenzi. Ke unokukhetha ezintathu: Yiphumelele ilotto, sebenza iesile lakho de ube unemali eyoneleyo yokuthatha umhlala-phantsi, okanye ufumane iqabane elityebileyo eliza kuxhasa iprojekthi yakho.
Ndiyakuthanda ukubhala, kwaye ndiyakonwabela into yokuba ndingenza nemadlana ngayo ecaleni. Into yokugqibela endifuna ukuyenza, nangona kunjalo, kukuzama ukwenza umsebenzi osisigxina. Nje ukuba ndenze njalo, andinakubhala ndonwabele okanye kuba ndinento ebalulekileyo endifuna ukuyithetha. Hayi, ngoku kufuneka ndiqale ukubhala ukukholisa abaphulaphuli kunye nokukhulisa abaphulaphuli, ngaphandle koko ndiye ndiqhekeze kwaye ndingatyi. Okanye, ndinokuqhubeka ndiyenze ecaleni, apho yongeza ixabiso elikhulu kunye nenjongo ebomini bam. Andifuni ukuthenga kwingxelo kuyo yonke i-Intanethi ngoku ukuba kufuneka ndisebenzise ukuthanda kwam ukwenza umthombo wengeniso. Nalu uthsuphe: Ukuba kufanelekile ukuba wenze umsebenzi ukuze ufumane umvuzo, ayisiyonto nje.
Okwangoku, ndiqinisekile ukuba kusekho ukubambeka okumbalwa abafuna ukwenza into yabo kuba ilizwe elikhulu lokudibanisa liyancwina umphefumlo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba ngaba kukho nakuphi na ukuqiniseka ebomini, kukufa, iirhafu kunye nehlabathi elihlangeneyo eliba intwana yomphefumlo kabani wosuku ngalunye abathatha inxaxheba kulo. Kuphela, akunyanzelekanga ukuba kubenjalo. Kuyinyani ukuba kukho iinkampani ezoyikekayo phaya ezithi zibambe umphefumlo wakho. Ndisebenze isibini kubo. Ziindawo ezoyikekayo ukuba zibe kuzo, kwaye ekuphela kwento abantu ekufuneka beyisebenzisile kukuya kwilitye lokunyathela kwinto engcono.
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi bakha ingxelo ezintlokweni zabo ngenxa yokuba yabo Umsebenzi wequmrhu uyothusa, konke imisebenzi yequmrhu iyoyikeka. Kukho ibali, enkosi kumashishini afana noWal-Mart, ukuba bonke babi. Eyona nto bafuna ukuyenza kukwenza imali kwaye wophe umhlaba owomileyo kubanini zabelo, ngelixa bejija abantu abenza ishishini labo liqhube ngemivuzo iphantsi kakhulu bafuna izitampu zokutya. Ke, ayimangalisi ke into yokuba abantu bakholelwe ekubeni bamshiye ummandla onje kuphela kunokusebenza kakuhle-ukuba baya kuphila ubomi obungenamsebenzi.
Endaweni yokuzama ukubutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho ngaphandle kokubulungela, ungathini ngokwenza utshintsho oluncinci ngokufumana umsebenzi ongcono kwinkampani ebhetele, nabantu abangcono? Uya kumangaliswa yindlela etshintsha ngayo indlela obujonga ngayo ubomi.
Ezo nkampani kunye nemisebenzi kunzima ukuyifumana, ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa yile nto ibenza ukuba bafaneleke. Okanye, fumana umsebenzi ngokwenza into othanda ukuyenza ukuba ukhathele yile uyenzayo ngoku. Kukho ukubulawa okupheleleyo kweenguqu ezincinci onokuzenza kwimeko yakho yomsebenzi eya kukunika into oyifunayo. Ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci kunzima kakhulu kunokuba uzame ukushiya ngasemva kwaye uqale into ngokwakho, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abayilungiselele.
Nantsi enye into: Ukuzisebenzela, ngokwakho, kunokuba lilolo. Ndinelungelo lokusebenza ekhaya xa ndifuna njalo, nto leyo intle kuba oko kuthetha ukuba andinakudlala ngexesha. Kodwa nokuba ndizisiwe njengam (kwaye uninzi lovavanyo lobuntu lundixelela njalo), ndiyakhumbula ukuba phakathi kwabantu. Abantu zizidalwa zasekuhlaleni.
Ukuba ubucinga ukwenza ukutsiba ukuba ube ngumphathi wakho kwaye uzifumene uphefumla unxunguphalo kuwo onke amanqaku endiwaphakamisileyo, inokuba licebo elilungileyo ukubamba ukutshisa iinqanawa zakho. Ukungena konke ngeli xesha kungalindelekile. Owu, baninzi abantu kwi-intanethi abaya kukuxelela ukuba utshise iinqanawa zakho, ekuphela kwento ekubambezelayo nguwe. Musa ukubabhatala. Inani lamaxesha endikhe ndabona abantu bexelela abanye ukuba bangene nje kulo lonke liyothusa kuba abakaze baqwalasele ukulungiswa kwaloo mntu (okanye ukusilela kwayo), iimeko zosapho lwabo, uxanduva lwezezimali njalo njalo.
Kukho isizathu sokuba ufunde amabali malunga nabantu abayeke imisebenzi yabo kwaye bangene bonke kwishishini labo, eliphelela ukuxabisa isigidi seedola (okanye nokuba sisigidi seedola). Ziyamangalisa kuba kunqabile ukuba kwenzeke .
UPeter Ross uyayila kwakhona i-psychology kunye nefilosofi yelizwe leshishini, imisebenzi kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ungamlandela kwi-Twitter @prometheandrive.
