UDavid Goggins ngaphambi nasemva
Ndifuna ngokwenene ukungamthandi uJesse Itzler. Kodwa ke andinakuvuma ukuba kwiarhente yethu yokubhala ngokubambisana, uLisa Leshne, owayenomdla wokunditsalela kwitheko elibhiyozela ukupapashwa kwencwadi entsha kaMnu. Ukuhlala nge-SEAL: Iintsuku ezingama-31 zoQeqesho kunye noMntu oQinisekileyo kwiPlanethi .
Isiseko sale ncwadi sandicaphukisa: Mnumzana Itzler, into engama-40, usomashishini ophumelele ngokumangalisayo, owayesakuba (mhlophe) inkwenkwezi ye-rap, kunye nombaleki we-marathon oqesha i-SEAL SEAL ukuba aphile nosapho kwaye amngenise kwezomzimba zibalaseleyo ubume bengqondo yobomi bakhe. Kum, oku kwaqubisana nomfana owayeneedola ezingaphezulu kwengqondo.
Kodwa ndandihlala ndivale umlomo wam ndaza ndaya kufikelela kumdibaniso wepitsa weHarlem. Ndicinge ukuba ndingabamba isilayidi, ndincume ngembeko, ndivuyisane nokubhala incwadi kwaye ndenze umvakalisi wokwenyani ukuba ayikhulule, ndihambe. Akukho monakalo, akukho ntlonti, kwaye mhlawumbi isilayi sepitsa efanelekileyo.
Kodwa kanye njengokuba ndandibamba isilayi sesibini sepitsa emangalisayo yeNeapolitan Express, ndaziswa kwiphepha le-titanium le-6'1 180: uDavid Goggins.
Ndaye ndadibana NAMANQAKU. Umnumzana u-Itzler akaze alisebenzise igama lokwenyani lomlo owomeleleyo, kwaye akabandakanyi nefoto yakhe yokumazisa kule ncwadi. Ekuqaleni kwakubonakala ngathi yinto ehlekisayo. Nje ukuba ndiyifunde le ncwadi, ndiye ndafumanisa ukungaziwa kunye nemfihlakalo iyavakala. Kodwa kanye njengokuba ndandibamba isilayi sesibini sepitsa emangalisayo yeNeapolitan Express, ndaziswa kwiphepha le-titanium le-6'1 180: uDavid Goggins.
Ndiyazazi ii-SEAL ezimbalwa kule minyaka idlulileyo, kodwa onke ayengamagosa: i-Naval Academy okanye i-Harvard grads. Umnumzana Goggins wahlukile: ozichazayo nje-ngokungacacanga-kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo nge-1.9 GPA eyamkeleyo ukuba ufuna ukuziphucula. Kwaye loo nto ibhetele yayithetha ukuba kuye kwafuneka aphulukane neepawundi ezili-100 ukuze athabathe novavanyo lokufumana uphawu; uyenzile ngeenyanga ezimbini.
Saxhawula izandla, ndaza ndakhankanya ukuba unyana wam omncinci ebecinga ngokuthatha uvavanyo lwe-SEAL. UMnu Goggins wandijonga emehlweni - andizange ndicinge ukuba akayikubukela ngokugqithiseleyo nabani na - wathetha into ngokuxhasa unyana wam; ukuba yayiyinxalenye yengqondo eyayinzima ngakumbi kunomceli mngeni ngokwasemzimbeni. Kolo tshintsho lomzuzwana, wayendikhuthaze ngandlela thile. 
I-AOL BUILD izisa: UJese Itzler kwii-AOL Studios eNew York ngo-Okthobha u-29, 2015 kwisiXeko saseNew York. (Ifoto: John Lamparski / Getty Izithombe)
Umnumzana u-Itzler wakhwela esitulweni, wathatha imakrofoni, wabulela kubo bonke abantu abafanelekileyo, kwaye wachaza ukuba iprojekthi- kwaye incwadi-yenzeke njani. Umnumzana u-Itzler kunye nabahlobo bakhe abahlanu babengene kwi-ultra-marathon. Injongo yayikukubaleka iimayile ezininzi kangangoko kwiiyure ezingama-24. U-Itzler kunye neqela lakhe babethatha ithuba lokubaleka imilenze engamashumi amabini emizuzu. Xa bengagijimi, baphumle ngamanzi, iGatorade, iibhanana, iiPowerBars, kunye nokuthanjiswa.
Ikhosi yomdyarho ngokwawo yayiyiluphu yemayile enye ejikeleze indawo yokupaka iSan Diego Zoo, kwaye uMnumzana u-Itzler waqaphela umfana owayehluke kakhulu kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba: imbaleki yase-Afrika naseMelika eyayingenabo abadlali beqela; Wayebaleka lonke ugqatso lweeyure ezingama-24 eyedwa, enesitulo esisongelayo, ibhotile yamanzi kunye nebhokisi yabaqhekezi yokuxhasa. Kungekudala emva koko, uMnumzana u-Itzler wamlandela waza wabuza ukuba loo ndoda-Mnu. Goggins-angangena kunye nosapho inyanga yonke ukuze amqeqeshe.
Umnqa kukuba, kwakungekho ubudlelwane beshishini ngokusesikweni. Umnumzana Goggins zange acele mali- incwadi zange ibonwe- kwaye inyani, wayecinga ukuba uMnu Itzler uphambene.
Umnumzana Goggins wayenemeko enye kuphela: Wenza yonke into endiyithethayo.
UMnu Itzler uvumile.
Oko kuthetha ukuba YONKE INTO.
Kulungile.
Ndingakuvusa nanini na; Ndiyakukutyhalela nakweyiphi na imeko egqithileyo.
Ummm.
AKUKHO nto imiselweyo. AKUKHO nto.
Kungekudala emva koko, uMnu. Goggins wafudukela kwigumbi lika Mnumzana Itzler eCentral Park West - kwaye u-Itzler, inkosikazi yakhe, kunye nonyana wabo omncinci zange baphinde babubone ubomi ngendlela efanayo.
Ukuba ubeka ibhedi yakho rhoqo ekuseni uya kuwufeza umsebenzi wokuqala wosuku. Iya kukunika imvakalelo encinci yokuzingca, kwaye iya kukukhuthaza ukuba wenze omnye umsebenzi kunye nomnye kunye nomnye.
Incwadi ifundwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye iyonwabisa. Ndisahlasimla koko uMnu Goggins wayesenza ukuba u-Itzler enze yonke imihla; Kwaye uMnu. Itzler waphakama kumceli mngeni ngamnye. Ibali labo liyamangalisa umntu kwaye liyahamba: abantu ababini abavela kwimvelaphi eyahlukileyo ngokwahlukileyo, benokubonakala ngathi bahlukile ngokwexabiso.
Njengezinto ezininzi endizifundileyo namhlanje, bendizibuza ukuba ngaba sikhona isifundo kum okanye sabantwana bam. Kunyaka ophelileyo, intetho yokuqalisa i-Admiral William McRaven-owayengumphathi we-SEAL kunye nomphathi we-Joint Special Operations Command kuwo wonke umkhosi wase-US-wanika abaphumeleleyo kwiYunivesithi yaseTexas. Elona candelo lingalibalekiyo lomyalezo weAdmiral McRaven - kwaye wawuzele yingqokelela yeengcebiso ezomeleleyo, ezikhuthazayo- yayilala ibhedi yakho yonke imihla.
Ukuba ubeka ibhedi yakho rhoqo ekuseni uya kuwufeza umsebenzi wokuqala wosuku. Iya kukunika imvakalelo encinci yokuzingca, kwaye iya kukukhuthaza ukuba wenze omnye umsebenzi kunye nomnye kunye nomnye. Ekupheleni kosuku, ukuba umsebenzi omnye ogqityiweyo uya kuba sele ujikile kwimisebenzi emininzi egqityiweyo. Ukondlula ibhedi yakho kuyakuqinisa inyani yokuba izinto ezincinci ebomini zibalulekile. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza izinto ezincinci ngokufanelekileyo, awusoze wenze izinto ezinkulu ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukusuka kuDavid Goggins ngeJesse Itzler, bekukho nomyalezo omnye olula: zama ukuba ngcono ngomso. Emva kokufunda incwadi, isifundo, okanye umthetho, okanye injongo - nantoni na ofuna ukuyibiza-ayindothusanga. Into eyandothusayo kukuba ukwabelana kuka-Itzler ngeli bali kwenza ukuba likholeleke. Kwaye ngokwabelana ngalo myalezo, andinakungamthandi uJesse Itzler.
