Ngaphandle kokutshintsha izinto ozithandayo, le meko ikukuchitha inkcitho kunye nokuthandwa kwe-decluttering.I-Flaunter / i-Unsplash Njengesenzi, konmari -indlela etshintsha ubomi yokwala, njengoko waguqula uMarie Kondo -Bangasokola kakuhle kwisiphelo esinye nesichazi se-metrosexual. Qhubeka, zama ukukhumbula ixesha lokugqibela umntu awile ngalo lonto kwincoko nje eqhelekileyo. Kodwa njengombono, inokonwabela ikamva elinye: ubiquity cwaka kwinkcubeko yethu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, siphila kwihlabathi apho Ukuthengiswa kwamadoda kwishishini lokuzilungisa ngoku kuxabisa i $ 50 yezigidigidi ngonyaka . Ke injani inkcubeko apho i-konmari yenziwe yafakwa ngaphakathi ibukeka ngathi?
Ngokwabantu abadala, kujongeka njengenkcubeko apho kungekho mntu ufuna izinto zakhe. Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, kukho inqaku elinye ngonyaka apho ukwehlisa abantwana boomers bothukile (bothuka!) Ukuba abantwana babo nabazukulwana abazifuni izinto zabo ezinikezelwe ngesisa.
Kodwa ngemisebenzi kunye nabantwana abancinci, bambalwa abayi-40- okanye i-50-into yenzala efuna ukufumana izinto ze-bulkier okanye bathathe umsebenzi wokuhlela nokulahla izinto ezingafunekiyo kumakhaya abazali babo.
UStephanie Kenyon, 60, ongumnini weSloans & Kenyon Auctioneers and Appraisers e-Chevy Chase, uthi intengiso izele ngamanzi. Kunqabile ukuba usuku lungafumani fowuni kubantu abafuna ukuthengisa iseti enkulu yegumbi lokutyela okanye igumbi lokulala kuba akukho mntu usapho uyifunayo. I-Millennials ayifuni ifenitshala emdaka, izitulo zokugungqa okanye iiseti zeti zesilivere. Millennials musa polish isilivere. Ifenitshala esesikweni ihlala ithengiswa ngamaxabiso eengxoxo, okanye ukuba ayimanga kakuhle, inokuthi ihambe iye kulahla inkunkuma.
Kwizizukulwana, abantwana abadala bavumile ukuthatha izinto zabazali babo abalupheleyo-nokuba bayazifuna okanye abazifuni. Kodwa ngoku, intshukumo yokuchasana ne-clutter idibene nentshukumo ye-anti-brown-ifanitshala, kwaye indibaniselwano ithumela iiseti zegumbi lokutyela, i-flatware yesilivere entle, kunye ne-knick-knacks ngqo kwiivenkile ezithengisa izinto okanye kwi-curb.
Ukubeka iliso kwiNzululwazi yamaKristu Ngo-2017 :
Ngelixa sonke isizukulwana sinethuba laso nesincamathiselo sezinto zakudala okanye ukulangazelela itekhnoloji ephelelwe lixesha, inkcubeko yanamhlanje yezobuchwephesha ibonakalisa iimpawu ezimbalwa zokurhweba kwizinto zayo ezintle, zoyilo lwangoku zefanitshala emnyama okanye ii-knick-knacks ezivela mandulo.
Indawo ekujoliswe kuyo ephezuluI-NextAvenue yayicacile kwaye yayijolise kubaphulaphuli bayo ngoFebruwari 2017 :
Ukuba ucinga ukuba abantwana bakho abakhulileyo baya kwamkela ngovuyo izinto zabazali bakho, ukuba kuphela ngenxa yezizathu ezivakalayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungothuki.
Izibini ezisencinci eziqala ukuqala azifuni izinto ezifanayo ezazisetyenziswa ngabantu, utshilo uSusan Devaney, umongameli we-NASMM kunye nomnini weqela i-Mavins Group, umphathi omkhulu wokuhamba eWestfield, N.J. Abasakhethi iipateni ezisemthethweni zase-china. Ndinonyana abathathu. Abafuni nto yam. Ndiyifumana ngokupheleleyo.
Kwaye i INew York Times ndibuyele umva kwi abantu abancinci abafuni ibali lethu lezinto kule mpelaveki iphelileyo :
Abantu abadala abancinci banamhlanje bathambekele ekufumaneni iimpahla zekhaya abazithatha njengezethutyana okanye ezilahlwayo, kubathengisi abakwi-Intanethi okanye kwiivenkile ezinje nge-Ikea kunye neThagethi, endaweni yokuba bazuze ilifa kubazali okanye ootatomkhulu.
Oku kubonisa utshintsho olukhulu kwinkcubeko yezinto, utshilo uMary Kay Buysse, umlawuli olawulayo woMbutho weSizwe waBaphathi abaPhezulu abaShukumayo, umbutho oqeqeshiweyo weengcali ezihambayo ezinceda abantu abadala ukuba behlise.
Eli lixesha lokuqala sibona ikink kwityathanga lokudlulisa izikhumbuzo ukusuka kwesinye isizukulwana ukuya kwesinye, utshilo uNks. Buysse.
Ke kutheni abantu besala ifenitshala emdaka kunye neeseti ezipheleleyo zetshayina Okuninzi ? Kukho izizathu ezimbalwa ngaphaya kokuba andinakuma i-mahogany furniture finishes.
Abantu abadala abancinci bahlala kwiindawo ezincinci, bona irente kunokuba yeyakho , baya kuhlala kunye nabo abantu ohlala nabo kunokuba liqabane kunye nabantwana .
Utshintsho kwindlela iintsapho ezilisebenzisa ngayo ixesha lazo (jonga: ukwanda kwamakhaya anemisebenzi emibini kule minyaka ingama-40 idlulileyo ) kuthetha ukuba ukonwabisa kutshintshe kakhulu, kwaye kukho ukungabikho ngokucacileyo kwexesha lokuzonwabisa .
Okokugqibela, abantu abadala abatsha basetyenziselwa ukuqokelela yedijithali ii-asethi, hayi ezomzimba; oku kunokuba kunxulumene notshintsho lwamva nje ukuya amava njengomthengi olungileyo nomlindi Ibhonasi yokuphelisa ukutya komntu kwimidiya yoluntu ukubonisa amava akhe .
Ke ngoku? Olu tshintsho kwindlela abantu abaphila ngayo luhambelana nomnye umbuzo uqoqosho luqala nje ukuxoxa.
Iminyaka, inkcitho yokuthengisa iye yasetyenziswa njengesalathiso esikhawulezayo nesilula sempilo yezoqoqosho-ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle, abantu bachitha; ukuba akunjalo, abenzi njalo. Oku kuye kwancedwa lixesha apho iindawo zeentengiso zema kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke kwaye ukuzithengela ngokwakho kwakuthathwa njengomsebenzi wokuzonwabisa.
Sonke sikubonile ukuthengisa kuqala ukujijisana notshintsho olukhulu lomthengi-okt. abathengi betshintsha ixesha labo lokuzonwabisa kunye nengeniso yokubona besiya kuyo amava ngaphezulu kwezinto . Ke oku kuphakamisa umbuzo: Ngaba inkcitho yokuthengisa iya kuqhubeka ithathwa njengeyona ndlela yokuya kwimo yezoqoqosho kunye nengqondo yabathengi? Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, aboqoqosho bazakulinganisa njani uqoqosho lwamava ukulinganisa iipateni zenkcitho kwaye zichaphazela ntoni?
Le mibuzo iyafana naleyo yezoqoqosho eqala ukubuza malunga nemveliso. I-metric endala yokulinganisa imveliso yelizwe yayikhonkxiwe kwicandelo layo lemveliso. Kwinkulungwane yama-21, njengoko uqoqosho lolwazi kunye neenkonzo zeshishini zithatha izilayi ezinkulu zemarike yengqesho kwaye zivelisa ingeniso engaphezulu minyaka le, ngaba kububulumko ngokwenene ukulinganisa imveliso yelizwe ngokwenza imveliso yodwa?
OoQoqosho bathi okwangoku kunzima kakhulu ukulinganisa imveliso kwezoqoqosho emsebenzini , okanye ukufumana iindlela zokuphucula imveliso kwintengiselwano yomntu nomntu. Kodwa ukuba kulapho imali kunye nabasebenzi baya khona, umlinganiso uya kulandela.
Kwinqanaba elibanzi leenkqubo, indlela esikulinganisa ngayo imveliso kunye nenkcitho yabathengi iyatshintsha kanye nendlela esiyiqonda ngayo indlela abantu abaphatha ngayo imali nezinto.
Kwinqanaba lomntu, ukuthoba abantu babona into efanayo. Indlela yakudala yokudlulisa izinto ukuya kwizalamane ayisiyiyo-umlilo kwakhona. Kwaye isicwangciso esilula B-thengisa izinto okanye unikele ngaso kwisisa-sitshintshile, naso. Umzi-mveliso wesibini osetyenzisiweyo ubethwe ngobuninzi belungelo lokwenza uluhlu njengoko ibango liwile eweni.
Yintoni? Kukho abathengisi abasele bexakekile abaxakekileyo bezama ukufumana indlela yokugcina zonke iindidi zezinto ezingafunekiyo ngoku, njengeeseti zasechina okanye ii-1970 zika-Ethan Allen-style dining room sets, bezithethela ngokwabo ukuba bazokuqhekeza okulandelayo ukuvuselelwa kwale mihla. (Enye imali ekrelekrele sele ibheja kubantu abahamba besuka kwizitulo ze-Eames besiya Ifenitshala yegumbi lokutyela uPaul Revere ngewayelibonile .)
Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo ngowokuba ngubani oya kuthi thenga yonke le nto kwixesha elizayo? Kwaye iya kufaneleka kwiindlela zabo zokuphila? Imali eyi-Smart iya kujonga kwiindlela eziqikelelweyo zokuba abantu baya kuhlala njani kwaye basebenzise imali yabo , ke jonga ukuba ikhona indlela yokubeka izinto zayizolo kubantu abadala bangomso.
Kwaye umntu unethemba lokuba ukuba ujongene nesihlobo esincitshiswayo, ungahamba ngendlela encoko-keleyo enemfesane ngovelwano oluncinci. Sonke singaqhelekanga malunga nezinto zethu, kuba sizikhethile kwaye sahlawula imali yethu.
Njengoko uHelen Rosner wayekhe wabhala malunga nobuqili bokuthengisa izinto kwintengiso yeyadi , Ukuba kunzima ukuvuma ukuba kwanezinto esizithandayo zinexabiso, kunzima ngakumbi ukufunda ukuba ixabiso lincinci kakhulu kunokuba besicinga ukuba linjalo. Zama ukuthelekelela into ekufuneka uyamkele xa, ngaphandle kwesiphoso sabo, abantu obathandayo bengenakubona okanye babelane ngexabiso olincamathisela kwizinto zakho.
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