Kutheni abantwana befanele ukutsiba isikolo

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Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba UKUQALISWA KWEZIBONELELO kunzima kakhulu ukupela, kwaye INEPTITUDE ibonakala ikrwada. Uninzi lweentsasa, izizathu zam ziyathandeka. Sishiywe lixesha kuba:

• ULizzie ulibele ukunxiba izihlangu.
• Ndilahlekelwe libhlukhwe likaHenry.
• Sasibukele imovie entle kakhulu yeBarbie, kwaye khange sikwazi ukuzikhupha.

Ngezinye iintsasa, izizathu zethu zimbi kakhulu kangangokuba andinako nokuzithetha ngokuvakalayo. Sishiywe lixesha kuba:

• Umama wayejonge iividiyo zekati yomhlobo wakhe ka-Facebook.
• Sasidlala ngeminenke kwiveranda engaphambili.
• U-Lizzie wavuka enomkhuhlane omncinci, kodwa uMama wayengafuni ukuphoswa yiyoga ke ngoko wanika uLizzie Tylenol kwaye lonto ithatha ubuncinci iyure ukukhaba.

Sizamile ukuvuka kwangoko, kwaye sipakisha isidlo sasemini phezolo, kodwa iziphumo ziyafana. Ubuncinci kabini ngeveki, siyangxama ngokungxama ukuze sizikhuphe.

Ndiyazi ukuba inkunzi iyayeka nam. I-kindergartener yam ayikwazi ukuseta iwotshi yealam. Umntwana wam oneminyaka emi-2 akakwazi ukuxelela ixesha. Ndim ndedwa umntu onokusisa phaya.

Kodwa njengoko kuvela, andifuni ngokwenene.

Ndifuna siyeqe isikolo ngamanye amaxesha. Intombi yam ineminyaka emihlanu, kwaye ngeentsuku ezithile ndingathanda ukuba ibuye. Ndifuna ukumsa kwi-10am ebonisa UAnnie , kunye nokubona izingwe kumyezo wezilwanyana ngoLwesibini. Ndifuna usuku ekhaya ukuze ndenze izinto nge-marshmallows.

Abahlobo bam bayandixelela yile nto yeholide yehlobo. Kodwa uthando lwam kumntwana wam alukho ngamaxesha athile onyaka. Ayisiyiyo yonke into eyoyikisayo eyenzekayo ngoJulayi nango-Agasti. Unazo impelaveki, andibi kunjalo? Kanjalo. Kwaye nebhola ekhatywayo kunye necawa kunye namaqela okuzalwa kunye nokubeka kude iimpahla. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iimpelaveki zethu ziziva zixakekile kuneentsuku zethu zesikolo.

Kuya kuba kuhle ukutyala imbewu ngolwesiThathu kusasa, kwaye ujonge i-starfish kumaza asezantsi. Ndifuna silandele loo nkumba kwivaranda engaphambili, ubone ukuba yintoni bona yenza imini yonke.

Kuvakala ngokungathi kufanele ukuba ube sisikolo sasekhaya, Abantu bathi. Kodwa ndiyamthanda utitshala wentombi yam. Wenza umsebenzi othandekayo. Andicebisi ukuba ndingcono kwiMathematics okanye iSpanish, okanye ukuba ndiyayiqonda yonke into efunekayo ukufundisa umntwana ukufunda.

Ndicebisa ukuba, kuba ndineminyaka emihlanu ubudala, iintsuku ezili-180 zesikolo azihambelani.

Kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ndiyayifumana. Silungiselela abasebenzi. Ingxowa yokubala yokubukela iprojekthi yokubaleka kunye nomama ayisiyonto imnandi yokusebenzisa ixesha. Kodwa enkulisa? Ngaba iintsuku ezili-150 bezingayi kwanela? Okanye malunga ne-92? Oko, bendinokuyiphatha.

Ndicinga ukuba kuhle ukuba iintsuku ezili-180 zesikolo iyafumaneka . Andifuni ukubanjelwa loo nto. Xa intombi yam yayikhumbula usuku lwayo lwesine, safumana ileta. Ndacacisa ukuba sasiseOhio kumtshato womntakwethu kwaye ndandisa uhambo lokutyelela umakhulu wam oneminyaka engama-94. Ngokwesi sithili, akukho nanye kwezi ntsuku ziphosakeleyo yayikukungabikho komthetho ngokusemthethweni.

Ndingayigcina intombi yam ingekho esikolweni ngenxa yokugula, iholide yenkolo, okanye umngcwabo, kodwa ndingayi kuyindwendwela uyaphila umakhulu-makhulu alishumi kude. Ngexesha labongikazi, iinkampu zemini zelizwe, kunye noxinzelelo lwabazali abasebenzayo, ndikufumanisa kuyothusa ukohlwaywa ngokuchitha ixesha elininzi nomntwana wam. Emva kokufunda umgaqo-nkqubo wokuhamba isikolo, ndaphinda ndakhunjuzwa ukuba abazali abanabantwana abaphoswa ziintsuku ezininzi banokutshutshiswa ngolwaphulo-mthetho.

Ukubhengezwa ngokupheleleyo: Ndakhe ndayinxalenye yale nkqubo. Ndifundise iminyaka elishumi, kwaye ndinesidanga semfundo. Ndiyazi ukuba iintsimbi zesikolo ziyilelwe ukulungiselela abafundi kwimida yeefektri. Sithatha ihlobo ukuze silungiselele uqoqosho lwezolimo oluthe lwaphela kudala. Kwaye ukuhamba isikolo okunyanzelekileyo kweza malunga nokuphakamisa imfundo ngokubanzi yobemi bethu. Kodwa kwagqitywa nini ukuba abantwana bethu abancinci abakubudala bokuhamba isikolo babotshelelwe ngqongqo olunje?

Ungandivi kakubi. Kwibhalansi, imfundo esisinyanzelo yinto elungileyo. Kweli lizwe, sinethamsanqa lokuba sikwazi ukuthumela bonke abantwana bethu esikolweni. Umba we-R omathathu (oko kukuFunda, [w] UkuBhala, kunye 'nokuBala kwabo bagcina umkhondo). Kodwa kufanele ukuba kubekho indawo yokumangaliswa, ubuchule kunye nosapho. Akufuneki ukuba senze inkohliso encinci ukuya kutyelela umakhulu.

Xa ndandikhula, ndandingulomntwana ocaphukisayo wokuzimasa. Iminyaka emininzi, andizange ndiphoswe nalusuku olunye. Ndafumana isiqinisekiso, igama lam labizwa kwindibano yokuphela konyaka. Ndazingca ngalonto. Ngaphandle kokujonga emva, kundenza lusizi kakhulu. Ngezo nyanga zisithoba zesikolo, ndandingenandlela ibhetele ndingaya kuyo.

Izikolo azicingi kakuhle kubazali abafana nam. Kukho amagama kuthi: IINKONZO. Kwaye yabantwana bethu: IITRUANTSI.

Ndiyayiqonda inkxalabo yezikolo. Baphulukana nemali yombuso xa abantwana bengabonisi. Kwaye ootitshala banendawo eninzi yokugubungela. Abafundi abadlala ukubamba bayacotha wonke umntu phantsi. Abanye abantwana, ukungabikho ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba yingozi. Kwenzeka ntoni kumntwana ophose iveki xa efundisa unobumba uG?

Ndikulungele ukufumana ithuba.

Isikolo ayisiyiyo ndawo kuphela apho kufunda khona. Ngaba asinako ukwandisa ukuqonda kwethu ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukufumana imfundo? Ndivakalelwa kukuba sele ndidibana nabo. Ndivolontiya kwigumbi lokufundela lentombi yam. Ndibeke esweni amaqela okufunda, kunye nexesha elibekiweyo ngexesha lokubaleka-a-thon. Ndafaka amaphepha epleyiti edityaniswe kwibhodi yeendaba kwi-Thanksgiving. Ukubuyisa, ngaba isikolo asinakuthembela ukuba ixesha endilichitha kwintombazana yam nalo lifundisa? Olo gadi, kunye nokuhleka, kunye nemibuzo esekwe kwinkumba yonke inendawo etafileni.