UAdi Dorfman kwizitrato zaseNew York.(Ifoto: Instagram).
INew York liziko lobugcisa, zombini ifashoni kunye nezemali kwilizwe liphela kunye nehabhu enkulu yezemidlalo. Kukwakhona, ngokucacileyo, indawo entle yokufumana uqhawulo mtshato olubi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngubani onokuba lusizi ngezinto ezininzi eziphazamisayo, abantu abanomdla kunye neebhali zemnyama ezikungqongileyo? Kwakucacile ngaphambili Bachelorette Ukuqiqa kuka-Andi Dorfman, nanjengoko yayingekuko ukwahlukana okungalunganga, kodwa yayililizwe liphela (kulungile, ubuncinci Isidanga abalandeli besizwe) besazi malunga.
Ndicinga ukuba iNew York yindawo elungileyo ukuqala ngaphezulu kulo naliphi na ibakala. Sesona sixeko sikhulu ehlabathini, unokuba yiyo nantoni na oyifunayo kwaye kukho amandla amaninzi apha. Awungekhe wenze impazamo ngokufudukela eNew York ngokoluvo lwam. Kukho izinto ezintle kuphela apha, uxelele uMqwalaseli. 
Ayilunganga: Ukuguqula Intliziyo Kube Luyolo Akazange Emva Ngu-Andi Dorfman.(Ifoto: Courtesy).
Ubhala konke malunga nokwahlukana kwakhe noJosh Murray, athe wazimanya naye kwisiphelo sexesha lakhe ebuyela kwi-2014, kwincwadi yakhe entsha Ayilunganga: Ukuguqula Intliziyo ebuhlungu Konwabe Akusoze emva koko eshaya iishelfu namhlanje. Ukuba ulindele indlela eqhelekileyo yokwahlula isikhokelo, apho umlinganiswa ophambili ecaphukile malunga nosuku olunye kwaye emva koko ajonge usizi lwakhe ekubeni ngumlwelwe womzimba owakha umbuso wobomi, ayisiyiyo le ncwadi. UNks uDorfman uya kwezinye iindawo ezimnyama kwaye kuyothusa ngokumangalisayo.
Uchaza ukungabinako ukuphuma ebhedini, iinkcukacha ngepakethi ayivelisayo ekutyeni kwewayini, Thin Mints (ikuki enegama elikhohlisayo, utsho) kunye neSour Patch Kids. Oko konke ukongeza ekusweleni kwakhe ishawa. Uveza iinkcukacha malunga ubudlelwane bokuhlukumeza ngokwasemoyeni kunye nomfanekiso ogqibeleleyo uMnu. Murray abanamava. Uxelele uMqwalaseli, xa ndithatha isigqibo sokuguqula [ijenali yam] ukuba ibe yincwadi ndenza esi sithembiso sokuba ndizakuhamba yonke indlela, ngeepesenti eziyi-100 ndiyokutsho ngokwenyani into eyenzekileyo, ebhetele okanye embi. Ndifuna abafundi ukuba babenako ukungafihli ukuze bakwazi ukunxibelelana nayo kuba eyona nto imbi kakhulu iya kuba kukufunda le ncwadi kwaye babe ngathi, 'Oku akukubi kangako. Le ntombazana ayinalo nofifi lokwahlukana! ’Ndandifuna ukuba ibuye ibuye, ke oko kwakuthetha ukuthwala konke.
INew York, eyasuswa nguNks uDorfman, 29, ebusika ka-2015, yabonakala iyindawo efanelekileyo yokubhala incwadi, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso ezininzi.
Uneziphazamiso ezilungileyo xa ungaziva ngathi uyabhala kwaye awunakukhupha amagama. Ndingaba ndiyaxoka ukuba anditshongo ukuba ndizenza uCarrie Bradshaw ngelixa ndibhala ndihlala kwindlu yam. Xa wayenababhali ababhlokile wayehambahamba okanye athathe ibhayisekile ngaphambi kokuphuma kwelanga ukuya eBrooklyn Bridge (ungabheja uCarrie Bradshaw akazange ayenze loo nto.) Nangona kunjalo, umdla kaNkosazana Dorfman xa ethetha ngokuthandana kwakhe nesixeko sakhe esitsha nguCarrie omsulwa. Ndisothukile ngenxa yeso sixeko kwaye ndihlala apha. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiza kuwela nje isitalato kwaye ndiza kuthatha umoya omkhulu, ndiphose iinwele zam egxalabeni kwaye ndibenomzuzwana. Abahlobo bam bahlekisa ngam. Ndiyakuthanda ukuhambahamba kakhulu, utshilo. 
UNksz Dorfman eyedwa.(Ifoto: Nomi Ellenson).
Umhlali wase West Village ohamba rhoqo kwiPolo Bar kwaye uthathe umkhuba waseNew York wokuba angaze apheke (ukusuka enkulu ebomini bakhe eAtlanta apho wayekhonza khona njengeGqwetha leSithili esiNcedisayo ngaphambi kokuyeka ukudlala IBachelorette ) kubonakala ngathi sele iqalile imeko phakathi kwakhe Isidanga kwaye Bachelorette oodade. Ukongeza kuNkosazana uDorfman, osoloko ejinga noSharleen Joynt ukusuka kwixesha lakhe, u-Olivia Caridi wexesha elidlulileyo Isidanga sokuqala ngokunjalo noCaila Quinn (obefanele ukuba ngeli xesha lonyaka Bachelorette , kodwa badlula ngomzuzu wokugqibela kuJojo Fletcher) kutshanje bafudukele apha ukuqala i-TV yabo entsha yenyani yaseNew York. Ewe, kuyinto ehlekisayo eba yinto. Uhamba ngokuqhekeka kumabonwakude wesizwe emva koko uzifumanele kwisiXeko saseNew York!
Ke elona cebiso lakhe lilungileyo lokuthandana kwe-gals enye kwisiXeko saseNew York? (Gcina ukhumbule, oku kuvela kumfazi owayethandana namadoda angama-30 ngexesha elinye.) Cinga ngendlela umfana enza ngayo, utsho. Abafazi bahlala bexhalabile ukuba kubafana kuhlala kukho omnye umfazi kwikona (onokuba ngumzekelo). Abahlobo bam bayabambeka kule ngqondo kwaye kufuneka ndibakhumbuze, kukho omnye umfana kwikona naye. Isebenza kubafana nakumantombazana. Ngumfazi ophuma kum, utshilo.
Ngokubhekisele kwihambo yakhe elandelayo yaseNew York? Ungathanda ukuthatha esinye isandi ekubhaleni, ngokunokwenzeka ukulandelelana kule ncwadi. Khange ndiyiqonde indlela endinomdla ngayo ngayo, utshilo uNkskz. Dorfman. Kungcono ubambe isiketi sakho esipinki setutu kwabo bavali kwasekuseni bakhwela u-Andi.
