Ingqondo inokukuxelela kakhulu.UScott Rodgerson / Unsplash Uya kudubula kamva ebomini. Izinto ziyakwenzeka kuwe kude ezantsi kwendlela, isangoma kwigumbi elingasemva kwigumbi lobuhle laseTexas landixelela kwiminyaka yam yamashumi amabini. Wayengumvumisi wokuqala endakhe ndaya kuye, kodwa ngekhe abe ngowam wokugqibela. Wayengomnye wabaninzi ababenokuthi baveze ikamva lam kwiminyaka ezayo.
Kodwa kuthekani ngoku ? Ndibuze, ndinethemba lokuba ibali lakhe lingatshintsha. Ngaba ikhona into eyakwenzeka kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo? Uye wathula phambi kokuphendula.
Unga kunokwenzeka dibana nendoda oza kutshata nayo kunyaka olandelayo, utshilo engakholiseki. Ayenzekanga loo nto. Owu kunokwenzeka, loo nguqulo inethemba elincinci ngakumbi.
Kwiminyaka eliqela kamva ndaye ndaqhusheka ngaphezulu kwe- $ 200 yomvumisi kwi-Upper West Side enegama elimangalisayo. Wayehletyelwa ukuba aqikelele ukurhweba okukhulu, imitshato, uqhawulo mtshato kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, nokufa-zonke zichane ngokuchanekileyo. Wabona kwangaphambili ukuthengiselana ngencwadi kunye nothando olukhulu kumhlobo wam omnye. Isivumelwano senzekile, kodwa ezothando azenzanga. Lo mhlobo usweleke esemncinci kwaye bendihlala ndizibuza ukuba ingaba i-psychic iyazi ukuba kuzakwenzeka lonke elixesha.
Umhlobo wam ongasekhoyo wayekhathaze kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo ebomini bakhe, kodwa wachuma emva kolo tyelelo lwengqondo. Ndiyazi ukuba ndinento endijonge phambili kuyo ngoku. Andisenalo ixhala, utshilo. Kwaye kanjalo, wayengenalo inkathalo kwihlabathi. Omnye umntu endimaziyo endingene naye kwaye ugqirha wamxelela kwangoko ukuba isoka lakhe liza kuphakamisa. Kwaye wenza, kanye emva kweveki enye.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba abanye abantu banokuba nesiphiwo sokukwazi ukubona izinto eziza kwenzeka kwikamva. Kodwa oosiyazi banamaqhinga orhwebo abanokutsala ngalo ukuze ubonakalise oko bakufunayo kufundo oluthembekileyo. Ndiyazi-ndisebenze ngokufutshane njenge-psychic yefowuni kubantu abaziwayo Inethiwekhi yabahlobo bePsychic . Kwiqela elidala labantu abafunda le nto, uyakukhumbula iintengiso ezibuhlungu zikaDionne Warwick ezaziza kudlala ezinzulwini zobusuku, zikhuthaza abantu ukuba bangene. Oko kwakulungile ngaphambi kokuba uMiss Cleo abe sisithethi sabo. Ukuxhaphaza kumaxhoba amsulwa, la manenekazi abeke ebhankini kwimpumelelo yawo ekubolekiseni ngeshishini. Ndithembise i-psychic yokwenyani, abanye abafowunelwa bandifumana endaweni yoko.
Andinawo amandla omlingo. Akukho nanye. Kodwa wonke umntu uyathanda ukuthetha ngaye kwaye uya kuthi ngokulula anike i-psychic ulwazi alufunayo. Ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili, xa ndabona oosiyazi, ndandingazi nokuba mandithini.
Ndinyuka ndisiya kwindlu yabasetyhini kwi-Upper West, ndazikhumbuza ukucofa imilebe yam. Ukuba wayeyinyani yokwenyani, ngekhe abuze umbuzo omnye. Kodwa andizange ndithandabuze, ndandiyibonile into ayenzele abahlobo bam. Ndandiqinisekile ukuba uyakuba yimpendulo yazo zonke iingxaki zam.
Njengoko ndingena kwigumbi bendizaliswe lithemba. Ndaziqinisa ukuba asabele njani kubukho bam. Kodwa imeko eyandibulisayo yayikukudana. Igumbi lalikhanyisiwe kwaye lipeyintwe beige nomhlophe. Wayenxibe njengaye nawuphi na umntu. Bendinethemba lokuba ubuncinci bohlobo oluthile lomboniso, okanye amashwamshwam, ngesixa endisibhatalayo. Uye wandibuza endikuthandayo ukuzonwabisa, kunye neminye imibuzo esisiseko. Ndizamile ukungamniki naluphi na ulwazi lokwenyani kwiimpendulo zam. Uye wandibuza ukuba ibnini ibirthday yam ndamxelela. Ndandisele ndiphelelwe ngumonde xa eqala ukujonga uhlobo oluthile lwencyclopedia enkulu. Wayetsala kwa ezo zinto ndandinazo njengobuqhetseba obuyimfihlo. Undinike ufundo olunzulu ngophawu lwam lweenkwenkwezi, kodwa bendisele ndiyazi ukuba ndiyilungu leVirgo ngendlela yam. Wayebulala ixesha.
Ke, masinqumle i-bullshit, ndithe xa ukufundwa kwakhe ngumqondiso weenkwenkwezi kuphelile. Kuza kwenzeka ntoni kum? Ngaba ndiza kudibana nomyeni wam ozayo kungekudala? Ndibuze ngokungacacanga. Ndasilungiselela isityhilelo esinjengaleso wayexele ngaso kumhlobo wam.
Ahh ... Makhe sithethe ngaloo nto, utshilo. Makhe sithethe ngolwalamano lwakho wena . Kwiyure elandelayo ndaziva ngathi ndikwi Isemina kaTony Robbins . Ndishiye ndiziva ndilahlekile ngesipaji esidlwengulweyo. Ndandisoyika ukuba mhlawumbi ukungabikho kwengqiqo kungenxa yokuba wayengaboni ikamva kum nakanye, kwaye akafuni ukuvumela.
Ndiye ndamtsalela umnxeba ngengomso ndakhalaza.
Khange undixelele nto. Ubucacile nabahlobo bam, ndifuna amaxesha amisiweyo kunye neziganeko apha, nditshilo.
Ndenzile, kodwa ubungakulungelanga ukumamela. Uphendule watsho. Uthethe nam emnxebeni kangangemizuzu engama-45, endiphoxa. Kwakungaphezulu kweseshoni yonyango kunokufunda.
Sithandwa awunakulufumana uthando ngaphandle kwakho ude ulufumane ngaphakathi, wandixelela ngeloxesha. Uyithanda kakhulu into ongenakuyilawula, de ufumane ukuzamkela nokwazi ukuzithanda uza kwenza izinto zibe nzima kakhulu kunokuba kufanelekile.
Ngaba awuliboni ikamva lam? Ngaba kunjalo? Ndikhwaze umgca.
Ngokukhawuleza xa uphuma kwindlela yakho uza kubona izinto ngokucacileyo, watsho, ngomonde, ngaphambi kokucebisa ngeencwadi ezininzi zokuzinceda. Andizange ndithenge namnye.
Ndandinomsindo kuba abahlobo bam babeneengqikelelo ezithile kwaye ekuphela kwento endayifumanayo yayikukuya eBarnes naseNoble. Ekugqibeleni ndayeka ukuchitha imali endiyifumene nzima kwezi zinto kuthiwa zibaxumi, ndahamba nje ngezinto ngendlela yam. Yenzelwe iimbambano ezincinci.
Ke ndandithandabuza, kwiminyaka emininzi kamva, xa umhlobo wam wandipha iseshoni ye-psychic njengesipho somtshato. Kodwa ndigqibe kwelokuba ndiye, ndizame ukuba nengqondo evulekileyo. Eli bhinqa landikhuthaza ukuba ndigxile kwikhondo lomsebenzi wam, kwaye wayebonakala enolwazi oluthile oluthile, oluncinci ngobomi bam endingazange ndilutyhile kuye, okanye nakubani na.
Ndaqala ke ukubuyela umva. Ndiyamthemba. Kwaye xa ndimfumana amaxesha ngamaxesha, andibuzi malunga nenqanaba lobomi bam bothando. Nokuba uthini, andizokwazi yenza nantoni na malunga nelo candelo lobomi bam — asinakukwazi ukulawula indlela omnye umntu avakalelwa ngayo ngathi. Ke ndisebenza kwinto endinokuyilawula: mna.
Kwaye xa kufikwa ekuthandaneni, ndimamela ithuku lam, lihlonitshwe ngaphezulu kweminyaka yezifundo endizifundileyo, kunokuba ndicebise omnye umntu, nokuba bathi banengqondo yesithandathu.
Elona cebiso lililo lokuba ndibonise abanye, njengomntu owayengomnye, kwaye uye komnye? Xa kuziwa kubomi bakho bothando, musa ukubuza i-psychic. Funda kwizinto zakho zangaphambili, landela isisu sakho, kwaye uzazi ngokwakho-uhlobo olufana nolo lwengqondo lwathi.
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