Ndifuna ukuba nemfesane kakhulu.UMahdi Shakhesi / Unsplash Zithandwa zam,
Ndiyazi ukuba uchonga ukuba ulungile. Luphawu abafundi ofunda nabo ababhala ngalo kwiincwadi zonyaka, abo babekwazi wena nabo bakugcinayo kuphela.
Umhle kakhulu! Yiba nehlobo elihle!
Yayiyibheji yembeko. Kwaye ndiyayifumana; ngubani ongafuni kuthiwe ulungile?
Ndilapha ndikubuza - ndiyakucenga - yeka ukuba muhle.
Limnandi ligama elimnyama eligutyungelwe ngamafu anombala, onemibala, kunye nee-unicorn. Kuyinto embi. Ngumfazi omdala okwi-Snow White okutyisa ama-apile abomvu aqaqambileyo. Inokwenzeka njani into yokuba eli nenekazi limnandi libe ne-ajenda eyimfihlo ngaphaya kokufuna ukukunceda ugcine ugqirha engekho?! Ndithembe: intle ayinamdla wakho entliziyweni. Akunjalo.
Yile nto intle ijongeka ngathi xa umlingo wakhe uwela kude: Kuhle ukwenza izizathu zabanye abantu, ukungazihloneli ngokungabaphenduli. Ayikufuni ukushukumisa isikhephe ngokwabelana ngeengcinga zakho, izimvo, kunye neemvakalelo, ube yinto engacacanga, eguqukayo yemvelaphi. Ivumela abantu ukuba bahambe phezu kwakho, bengayimeli into okholelwa kuyo, bangavumeli nabani na ukuba abone naliphi na icala lakho ngaphandle intle . Isabela kwihlabathi elivela kwindawo yokuphepha, hayi ukubandakanyeka.
Oku kuyeka apha.
Ayikuko ukuba ndifuna ukuba ukhohlakele. Akunjalo. Zininzi ezinye izinto onokuzenza ngaphandle kokuhle kwaye ugcine intliziyo yakho, leyo ifuna ngokunyanisekileyo ukwenza okulungileyo ngokwakho nakwabanye. Nantsi into endiyifunayo kuwe endaweni yobuhle:
Ndifuna ukuba nemfesane kakhulu, uzixelele kunye nabanye ukuba bafuna ukuva ntoni, nokuba kunzima, kuba babangela ingozi.
Ndifuna ukunyaniseka, ukwabelana ngezimvo zakho naxa usoyika ukuhlekwa. Njengoko wabelana, mamela izimvo zabanye, ngakumbi abo bangavumelaniyo. Ayilulo uhlaselo; lithuba.
Ndifuna ukuba ube ngqongqo ekuzinyamekeleni kwakho, ubeke iimfuno zakho kuqala, kuba ukuba awuzali, awunakuba yinkonzo ngeendlela zakho ezizodwa.
Ndifuna ukuba ube ngowokuqala ukuxolela abanye, hayi kuba kuyinto entle ukuyenza, kodwa kuba uyakhumbula ukuba ubomi bufutshane kakhulu kwaye sonke sinesiphene. Oku akuthethi ukuvumela umntu ukuba abaleke ngezenzo ezingalunganga. Uyakwazi ukufikelela kwingxoxo ecingayo ukuba ufune ukuxolelwa entliziyweni yakho kuqala.
Ndifuna ukuba uthethe ngokuthetha ngabantu abasemva kwabo, ukukhuliswa okuhle kweMinnesota. Thetha nabo, ubuso ngobuso. Wonke umntu ungumntu, kwaye abantu aboyiki njengoko ucinga.
Ndifuna ukuba ubeke izimvo zakho, amaphupha kunye neenjongo zakho emhlabeni, ungazi mntu kodwa ungazophula.
Ndifuna ungaziva kakubi ngokuthi, hayi. Awudingi ukwenza iinkcazo okanye izizathu. Zigcine iimfuno zakho njengengonyamakazi elugcina amathole ayo. Akadingi kuchaza. Ulandela ithuku.
Ndifuna uxelele abantu ukuba uyabathanda. Nokuba abayithethi kwakhona. Yiba nesibindi sokuthanda ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba ibuyiswe. Yiba nesibindi sokuthanda abanye usazi ukuba uza kuphulukana nabo bonke.
Ndifuna wenze le kwaye ke, kakhulu ngakumbi. Unokuba nemfesane, womelele, unoburhalarhume, unothando, ungumntu ozinzileyo. Kodwa nceda, ngenxa yakho kunye nawo wonke umntu, ungaze uphinde ube mnandi kwakhona. Thumela ixhegokazi kunye nama-apile alo. Impilo yakho intle.
Uthando olungapheli,
ULaura
ULaura Thomas ngumbhali, umlingisi, umhlohli onengqondo kunye nosomashishini. Emva kokuphulukana kabuhlungu nomntakwabo omdala ngo-2011, uLaura wagqiba kwelokuba isikhokelo asisebenzisileyo ukubuqhelisela ubomi bakhe bonke yile: yenza kuphela izinto ezenza umhlaba ube yindawo enovelwano ngakumbi. Gcina iliso kwimemori yakhe ezayo, ndingubani ngaphandle kwakho? , kwaye ulandele uhambo lwakhe www.laurathomas.life okanye kwi-Instagram: @lungelo_b .
