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Akukho kunqongophala kwe amabali abhaliweyo malunga nesenzeko sabasetyhini abathandanayo nabatshatayo , ngamanye amaxesha bade bawagxothe la mabhinqa uhlala unesizungu, ulambile-ulambile okanye ufuna imincili kulwaphulo-mthetho olungamakhwenkwe . Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko, aba bafazi bakhona - kwaye bahlala befuna inkxaso xa abanye babo babathandayo bebajikela okanye bengasiqondi isizathu sokuba beme ngendoda esemva kwezitshixo. 
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I-SPW, ekwabizwa ngokuba yiStrong Prison Wives and Family, yaqala ngefomathi yebhlog elula kwi-2012, uRo usixelele. URo wasebenza neblogger enamava, umyeni wakhe wayevalelwe, kwindawo yokuqala yokuphinda isiza. Emva koko, xa umyeni weqabane lakhe wakhululwa entolongweni kwangethuba, uRo wayeyedwa. Uchithe iinyanga ezilithoba eqokelela imali ukuqala inethiwekhi, utshilo, kwaye wavula le Januwari uphelileyo ngesiza esikhulu, esingcono emva kokugcina i-600 yeedola. Indawo ixabisa malunga ne-100 yeedola ngenyanga ukuqhuba. 
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IStrongPrisonWives.com ngoku inamalungu angama-700, ngelixa imithombo yeendaba zentlalo ye-SPW inkulu kakhulu, inabalandeli abangama-5,000 kuFacebook nakuma-2 000 kwi-Instagram.
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Kuninzi ukungakhathali kunye nentiyo kunye nezimvo ezimbi kwimidiya yoluntu, utshilo. Ingumxholo ophikisanayo kwaye kukho ukubekwa amabala. Ndifuna ukugcina iqela lam liqinisekile, likhuthaza, lixhasa kwaye liluncedo. Omnye wemishini yam ngayo yonke into kukususa elo bala.
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Wayehlala esenza iividiyo zika-YouTube zabafazi kwimeko yakhe, kodwa wazithatha kuba kwakungekho ndlela ilula yokuthintela ukufikelela kuphela kumalungu e-SPW. Kwaye sonke siyayazi indlela abagxeki nabangaboni ngasonye ngayo ku-YouTube. Okwangoku, uyavuma ukuba inethiwekhi yokuncokola imncedile ukuba afumane amalungu amatsha ngaphezulu kwayo nantoni na.
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