Zeziphi iiNkqubo eziKhokelela kuMhla weSibini kunye nobuDlelwane?

Njengokuba abantu abaninzi besebenzisa iifowuni zabo ukukhangela umntu oza kubukela iNetflix rhoqo, isibini esichazayo ukuba sidibene Kulungile okanye Isilinganisi yinto eqhelekileyo. Njengoko ukuthandana app ukuthandwa kuyakhula, intsha, ethe ngqo ethe ngqo ithembisa ukujolisa kwimidla eyahlukeneyo, imvelaphi kunye nemisebenzi. Abasebenzisi abanethemba lokuba ezinye iiapps zikhokelela kubudlelwane, endaweni yeencoko ezingenantsingiselo kunye nokutya okungonwabisiyo. Umbonisi wathetha nabantu abangatshatanga kunye nabatshatileyo ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi abantu abayithathela nzulu xa kufikwa ekufumaneni uthando… okanye ubuncinci umhla wesibini.

Kweminye, imihla yeTinder ikhokelela ngaphezulu kune-hook ups abaye baba nodumo. UKim, umphathi weendaba zosasazo, wajoyina iTinder kuba kwakulula. Khange ndibenakho ukugcwalisa iprofayili ebanzi, utshilo, esongeza ndinomhla omnye weTinder. Kwakungowokuqala nowokugqibela wam. Siza kwisikhumbuzo sonyaka omnye kwaye sihamba kunye. Kwabanye, bebekwiminyaka engaphezulu kwesinye kwiTinder, kwiziphumo ezixubeneyo.

Izithuba zeTinder izibini ezadibana zisebenzisa iapp kwaye ngoku bayazibandakanya nephulo labo losasazo lwe- # SwipedRight(Ifoto: Tinder Instagram).

URebecca, umququzeleli wentengiso we-20 waseNew Jersey, usebenzisa iTinder kunye ne-OkCupid, ngaphandle kweengxaki ajongene nazo kule yokugqibela.I-Tinder indenza ndizive ngathi ndinolawulo ngakumbi. Andiyithandi into yokuba nabani na kwi-OkCupid angakuthumelela umyalezo, ngaphandle kokubonisa umdla.UBrittney, umbhali ohlala eNew Jersey, ucime i-OKCupid kunye Bumble kuba ufumaneke ukuba kumaqonga amaninzi ngaxeshanye kunzima. Ndiyayithanda imbono ye-Bumble, apho umyalezo wabasetyhini kuqala, kuba ndicinga ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo kunciphisa uxinzelelo; kodwa ndifumanise ukuba abantu abaninzi abayiphenduli imiyalezo, eyenza ukuba izive ingenantsingiselo.

NjengoRebecca, uBrittney wayenemicimbi ne-OkCupid. Ndaye kwi-OkCupid unyaka, kwaye ngelo xesha ndaya kuphela kumhla omnye. Ndixele imiyalezo emininzi yokuhlukunyezwa kunokuba ndiphendule imiyalezo. Xa kuziwa kumanani, u-Brittney wayethandana nomntu othile kwi-Tinder, kodwa nangoku unamathandabuzo malunga ne-app. Ivakala ngathi abantu abaninzi kwiTinder bahlala becinga ukuba umdlalo ongcono unokuba kukuswayipha nje okumbalwa.

IHappn idibanisa abantu abawela iindlela kubomi bokwenyani(Ifoto: Happn Instagram).

* UGus, umfundi osesikolweni sase-East Village wezomthetho, ukhokelela kubomi obunzima be-appBumble, Tinder, Happn, OkCupid kunye Isisulu . Yena kunye nentombi yakhe babengenalo ithamsanqa kunye nale yokugqibela, usetyenziso olusetyenziselwa ukumisela amashumi amathathu.Ndayeka ukuthumela amantombazana umyalezo okokuqala kwiTinder ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba iBumble iphume, ngenzame yokwandisa ukusebenza kakuhle, uxelele uMbonisi.* UJason, umphathi wepotifoliyo eMidtown, uneeprofayili kwiTinder, uManyano, iBumble kunye nehenjisi, ekhokelele kwelona xesha lesibini. UJason uthe, Amantombazana anoburhalarhume ngakumbi kuBumble… Ndifumene ubunqunu obungacelwanga. Ukuseta ukudibana kunye nentombazana okwesihlandlo sokuqala xa usithi, ezinzulwini zobusuku ngoMgqibelo ebusuku, bekungayi kubakho kwiHinge okanye kwiLigi. Kulula kwiTinder.

UMike, umlawuli wentengiso wento engama-20 eGramercy, usebenzise iTinder, iBumble kunye neHinge. Bumble kulungile kuba amantombazana odibana nawo anomdla kuwe, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka aqalise incoko, usixelele. Ndivavanye iinketho ezimbini zeprofayili kwiBumble. Leyo apho ndikhankanye ukusela kwiklabhu yelungu kuphela ethandwayo eMeatpacking ibingcono ngcono kunokuba bendibhala ndisithi 'Masibambe iwayini nepitsa.' Uqhubekile nokucula iindumiso zikaBumble: Amantombazana amaninzi akanyanzelekanga ukuba afune ukuma kobusuku obunye, ke xa befikelela kuwe kukho ukuqonda ukuba ngenene banomdla wokwazi.

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UMazel tov kuDavid noJuli kuthethathethwano lwabo! #YiQalileWasasula

Iposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu JSwipe (@jswipe) ngoMatshi 4, 2016 nge-1: 28 pm PST

UJosh, injineli yesoftware ehlala e-Chelsea, wadibana nentombi yakhe yangoku kwiHinge, kodwa usebenzise phantse zonke ii -apps ezikhoyo, kubandakanyaI-OkCupid, iHinge, iTinder, iJSwipe, iBumble, iKofu idibana neBagel, iQela kunye neQela. Ihenjisi, edibanisa izihlobo zabahlobo, yayiyeyona ayithandayo. Unokubona okuninzi malunga nomntu, kuba inxibelelana noFacebook wabo, osisixhobo seendaba zentlalo abantu abangakhethi ngokuthe ngqo ukuthandana. UJosh uthe ngokuhamba kwexesha zonke iiapps ziqale ukudibana kunye. Mnat yayiqhele ukwahluka ngakumbi. I-Tinder yayingaphantsi kakhulu kune-OkC, kodwa ngoku iyafana ngokufanayo.

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Ukuqala kwam ukudibana naye kwindawo yewayini kwi-NYC, ndabuza ngokuqhula 'iglasi okanye ibhotile?' Impendulo yakhe: 'Andisoze ndayala ibhotile!' Saqala kwi-adventure yasendle kunye nam (ngokoqobo) siwa ngaphandle kwikhabhathi ngobo busuku. Oko ndiwele kuye mzuzu ngamnye emva koko njengoko siqhubeka nokuzonwabisa kunye. ' - @vsduo. Ngaba unakho nalawa mabini? Asinako. Vuyiswa kukuzonwabisa ngakumbi kwabafana bakho! @_tamaraphotography_ #tamaraphotography #CMBcouple #love #iceland #coffeemeetsbagel

Iposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu Ikofu idibana neBagel (@coffeemeetsbagel) ngoMatshi 3, 2016 ngo-1: 47 pm PST

* URachel, into engama-20 ehlala e-Upper West Side, usebenzisa iKofu Ukudibana neBagel, JSwipe kunye neBumble. Ndikhetha i-CMB kuba ithatha ixesha elincinci. Ufumana umdlalo wakho wemihla ngemihlaeminikwaye yile nto. Iapps zokutshintshela lixesha lokuncanca, utshilo. Kukho izixa ezingapheliyo zabafana, ke ukuba awunazakhono zolawulo lwexesha okanye ukuzeyisa, unokuqiniseka ukuba uchithe lonke elo xesha ubufuna ukufunda incwadi kuloliwe ongaphantsi, ucoca indlu yakho, usenzela isidlo saseminingomso okanyeUkusebenza, ukuswayipha kunye nokuncokola, ucacisile.

UJulie, umnini-shishini onento engama-40, uchithe ixesha kwiindawo zokuthandana, esebenzisa i-e-Harmony kunye nexesha lethu. Ixesha lethu lenza intloko yam ijikeleze; Kuyafana nokuzama ukumodareyitha ingxoxo yezopolitiko phakathi kwepakethi enobundlongondlongo yeYorkies kunye ne-dreary clan yeBasset Hound. I-e-Harmony, nangona kunjalo, iqhubeka izama ukunditshatisa namadoda ahlala ubuncinci beekhilomitha ezili-117 kude, bashumayela ivangeli kwaye ngokusobala abayazi indlela yokuthatha i-selfie. Khange abenethamsanqa elininzi nangayiphi na, kodwa i-e-Harmony ikhokelele kweyona mihla yesibini. UDani, umpapashi wentengiso we-Upper West Side, ukwasebenzisa iiwebhusayithi endaweni yeeapps. UDani ujongene nendoda awadibana nayo kwi-JDate, awayityikitya emva kokuba umakhulu wakhe ethe wahlawulela ubulungu bakhe. UDani uthe, Kulula ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubekwe eNew York ngaphandle kokubiza nayiphi na imali, eyenze amadodakunokwenzeka ukuba ucwangcise umhla, kwaye ungathethi nje ngawo.Wazama i-OkCupid, kodwa wathi, Njengoko igama lisitsho, kulungile.

Ngelixa iTinder kunye ne-OkCupid zidale ubudlelwane bexesha elide, kunye nemitshato, abantu abaninzi bafuna amava anyusiweyo, anikezelwa yiBumble, Hinge kunye neKofi edibana neBagel. Kwisixeko apho imihla yokuqala yongamileyo , Ukuphuma komhla wesibini inokubonakala ingafikeleleki ngokupheleleyo, ngakumbi xa bobabini abagcini beedatha benofikelelo kulwazelelo lwabantu olungenasiphelo kwiTinder. Iiwebhusayithi zesikolo esidala zisekhona kwabo bafuna ubudlelwane obunzulu, kodwa njengoko abantu abaninzi benqwenela ukuba njalo Ukugodola daters, azithandeki kangako. Ezintsha, ii -apps ezithile ngakumbi zinokungaqinisekisi ubudlelwane, kodwa ziya kukhokelela ekuswayipheni okuncinci, kunye nemihla yesibini ngakumbi kunonxibelelwano lweTinder ngaphandle kwento efanayo ngaphandle kwenkqubo ekhutshelweyo ekhutshelweyo.

* Amanye amagama atshintshiwe.